Nothing in the world has come quite exact in all respects. The almighty's creative hands has carved each and everything with something different from the other. He has shaped each one of us accordingly. No wonder he is the best engineer and the most creative! All of us have got something good and bad in us. That is just to present everyone on an equal stage. We cannot do anything about the way we are in appearance.
Everything has some fraud in it.No one can just be perfect. This is also true in the case of humans! We can only try to change the bad in us, not remove it completely. But, sometimes people become too worried for those little black spots. They start hiding them and for that they wear someone else's mask to conceal their own selves. It is amazing how many of us are not true to ourselves. Some of us allow someone else to describe who we are in person. Some of us try to act differently from what we actually are and it's sad to say, some of us don't even love ourselves!
Shakespeare's quote from his play 'Hamlet', "This above all:To thine own self be true" is a perfect advice that tells us to act,know and above all love ourselves for the human we are. We should not let others shape our personalities. We should be the owner of our true self and how to make it. We may think ourselves as the best or the worst as another quote of Shakespeare say it. "Nothing is good or bad, our thinking makes it so". So, nothing is purely good or bad. It is only our thinking that decides it. So, we must accept ourselves which is one of the most hardest yet the best thing to do. Before accepting we must know ourselves. That will make us remember our good intentions and kind actions because I believe, there is good in everyone. Nothing at all matters more to how we should act than our esteem.
We are all victims suffering in vain alone in our wisdom against the unfair society that keeps teaching us. Questions arise. We should keep calm and still be happy. Then our inner self must say "It doesn't matter what anyone or the world thinks.This is who I am and I am just being true to myself". There is no absolute self to be virtually true to. We are bad judges of ourselves.
We we start loving ourselves, we don't want to be anyone else but us. Life is about creating the 'Me' in us. Savour it and stay true to no one, but just your self.